Mrs. B:
“Hi there! Thank you so much for your page, it’s helping me to grow and move forward like I never thought I could. I really mean that. It has inspired me to pick up books and educate myself on the shit storm that is being a stepparent. That being said, I’ve got to vent on your page! If possible… lol. BM is pregnant, after she went psycho 🌪🌪🌪🔥🔥🔥 when I got pregnant, and took us to court and won a move away, all because she didn’t want to see “our happy little fucking family” in our city. She made my life a living hell, has called BD2 the spawn of Satan, etc (they have never met bc BM and SD7 now live in Hawaii). My complaint is that I’m really having a hard time biting my tongue now, through her pregnancy, even tho I know it’s making our lives easier. She would send me videos. And we would be left feeling hideous and useless, because how can we comfort SD and help her adjust when she lives across the damn ocean. I don’t even know what I want you to post, I don’t care if you post that video, I’m just looking for some advice and encouragement to keep me the bigger person. I don’t want her to feel guilty for moving on with her life, I just hate her for all the pain she has caused and now gets to skip around and start her family guilt free, after making us feel like shit bags for getting married and having a baby. It’s basically my SD being probed to explain why she hates her baby sister so much, after a recent visit.”
Mama Bear:
“Love, you have a ton on your plate. I shall create some posts for you, and a post for the community.
Your post is up!”
I would flat out have DH tell her to stop, it qualifies as harassment. It’s likely that what SD7 is going through is due to her mother’s influence on the situation. I would encourage SD7 to know that her new baby sister does not replace her and that she is loved just as much. That you guys miss her so so much and can’t wait to see her. I would make it a priority to send her things here and there to show that you still think of her. What BM will do with that is out of your control, and you have to remember that. You have control over how much you let her get to you. Ask her why she sends the videos she does and instead explains that she’s going to have two baby siblings soon, as she’s also pregnant. Rather, have DH handle this HCBM. You enjoy your new bundle of joy 💕
Mrs. B:
“just got off work and so thankful to see this, THANK YOU 🙏🏽”
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