We are all guilty of this from time to time… we say we’ll do something and then life gets complicated and we get busy. Some things fall through the cracks.Whether it’s with kids, friends, family, or coparenting… stay consistent. Be present.Don’t make a habit out of things being left said and not done. This pattern …
Victim or Survivor?
In the aftermath of a tragedy, trauma, or abusive experience, many initially take on a victim mentality. This is a completely normal response to traumatic events. When working through trauma, we gain acceptance of the events, and take control of our healing process by moving forward. Recognizing history and learning to grow through its experiences. …
Navigating Child Custody With Your Children
Child custody battles can be messy, and it can feel like your walking on glass when it comes to things. But what about our children? It's hard enough to go through a child custody battle with a bitter ex, willing to drag out dirty laundry and proceedings, at the end of the day our children …
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Disengaging Stepmoms: Signs It’s Time To Step Back
It's no news that every blended family not only looks different, but functions different. Dynamics between one blended family and another can be great. Parenting isn't a one-size-fits-all, and what may work for your family in the beginning may not work out the entire time you are raising your children. Just like our children change …
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Step-Parenting Teenagers – Why This Stepmom Has Taken A Major Step Back
When I first became a stepmom, the kids were 5 and 5. Our girls had known each other, and DH and I had been friends since the first six months of SD's life. Our girls are five months apart. I'll never forget when we first started dating. They were sweet, interested and excited about this …
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One for the Stepdad’s
Mama L: "Can you please make a post for the stepdad's out there?" Mama Bear Blended Family Support: "Of course mama! Your post is up! https://www.instagram.com/p/Bprl94Th55G/ Request from a follower! Stepdads live in the house and most of the time play an important role. Respect amongst parents is so important. Your children are watching." Do …
Appointment Scheduling
Scheduling appointments can be tricky for blended families! Mama Cares: "What to do? BM scheduled child’s doctor’s appointment for a day during the first week of the child’s 3 week school break when dad is supposed to have the child for the entire break. BM has never taken the child to a doctor for a …